School of Sexual Wellness
The Library
Four courses and 87 lessons on how desire actually works, why it goes quiet, and what to do in your own body about it. All of it open from the day you join.
$49 USD a month. Cancel any time.
Join The LibraryFour courses, 87 lessons
Everything written for you, rather than for your practice. Read them in order or move between them. All four are yours from day one.
Start here
Foundations of Sexual Wellness
Six chapters, 13 lessons. What sexual wellness means once you take performance out of the definition, the biology of desire without the jargon, the myths that quietly set the bar, and how sleep, stress and daily load shape what you feel. Short by design.
The flagship
The Sexual Wellness Reset
Six chapters, 19 lessons, 30 days. Drop the shame, understand the neurobiology of desire and arousal, set boundaries that create real safety, say the things you have never known how to say, and get back into your body. Ends with a 30 day roadmap so it sticks.
Go deeper
Intimacy Integration and Embodiment Lab
Six labs, 12 lessons. Advanced body awareness, nervous system regulation for desire, embodied communication, partner practices, and rituals that keep it alive. Closes with your own integration plan. Knowledge is not the gap. Embodiment is.
For this stage of life
The Midlife Intimacy Course
Eight modules, 43 lessons. Perimenopause, menopause and after, in plain language and with the evidence attached: dryness and comfort, pain and the pelvic floor, desire, hormones and treatment options, and how to be taken seriously by a clinician.
How The Library works
Everything opens at once
Nothing is drip fed and nothing is timed. Read in order, or go straight to the chapter you need this week.
New courses are included
Every new personal course released while you are a member is added to your library, at no extra cost.
Cancel from your account
One click. No email, no phone call. Your access runs to the end of the month you have paid for.
Who this is for
Most of what women are told about desire arrives either as a joke or as a warning, and almost never as plain information. The Library is the plain information: an education in how desire works, in the body, in the mind, and in the ordinary conditions of a life that already has too much in it.
You are not behind. You have been under-informed.
What it is not. It is not therapy and it is not medical care. If you are living with pain during sex, bleeding that is new or unexplained, or any change in your body that worries you, please take that to a clinician. Nothing written here can substitute for someone able to examine you and ask follow up questions.
If you are here for your work. The Library is the personal side. The professional courses on sexual health and dysfunction, trauma aware practice, relationships and sexuality education, and sexual assistive technology are sold separately, through the Practitioner Pathway.
Questions
How is this different from the Personal Pathway?
The Personal Pathway is a one off purchase, and what you buy is yours to keep for good. The Library is monthly, and access runs while your membership is active. If you know you want to keep these courses forever, buy the Pathway. If you would rather pay as you use them, join The Library.
Do I keep the courses if I cancel?
No. Access runs while the membership is active. You can rejoin later, or buy a course outright at any time.
Does it include the professional courses?
No. Understanding Sexual Health and Dysfunction, Sexual Wellness Literacy for Practitioners, the Global RSE Educator Certificate and the SAT Confidence System are professional training and are bought separately.
Does it include RECLAIMED or The Shift Method?
No. Those are separate programmes with their own structure and support.
How much work is it?
As much or as little as you have. Most lessons are readable in one sitting, and every one ends with a single small practice to try for a week. If the week passes and you have not done it, the lesson still counts. Reading is doing something.
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Four courses, 87 lessons, and everything added from here. $49 USD a month, cancel any time.
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