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Plain language writing on desire, intimacy and sexual wellbeing through perimenopause and menopause. Evidence informed, no euphemisms.

What Is Perimenopause? menopause perimenopause the shift method Sep 22, 2026

Most women do not get told what is happening to them. They get told they are tired, stressed, or getting older. Perimenopause is none of those things. It is a defined biological transition, and it has...

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What perimenopause does to desire, and what it does not desire menopause perimenopause Sep 06, 2026

Desire changes in perimenopause. That much is not in dispute, and you probably did not need an article to tell you.

What gets missed is that it changes for two quite different reasons, and the two ne...

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